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Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart.Sometimes it looks like dry, dull skin. Puffiness you can’t explain. A glow that disappeared somewhere between stress and survival mode.

As someone who teaches about the gut-brain connection, I’ve learned that burnout doesn’t just affect your mood, focus, or hormones — it can show up on your skin long before you even realize what’s going on.


And the hardest part? You’re doing the things. Drinking the water. Taking the supplements. Trying to eat better.But you still don’t look like yourself.You catch your reflection in a window and don’t recognize the woman staring back.Not because of one dramatic change — but because your light’s gone a little dim.I’ve been there. And you’re not imagining it.


Here are five common burnout skin symptoms I’ve seen (in myself and the women I work with), and what you can do to gently start feeling more like yourself again.


5 Signs Your Skin Is Telling You You’re Burned Out


1. Dull, lifeless tone: Stress slows down cell turnover and circulation. When your nervous system is in survival mode, your glow is one of the first things to go.

2. Puffy or sagging under-eyes: Burnout often leads to poor sleep and inflammation, which shows up under the eyes as swelling or droopiness — even when you’re eating and hydrating well.

3. Breakouts around the mouth or jawline: Stress impacts cortisol and insulin, both of which influence hormonal acne. Combined with a disrupted gut microbiome, breakouts become harder to manage.

4. Dryness or flaking that your usual products can’t fix: When your skin barrier is compromised by chronic stress, moisturizers don’t seem to work. Your skin feels tight, flaky, or like it’s aging faster than usual.

5. Redness, blotchiness, or reactivity: If your skin starts “freaking out” over things that used to feel fine, you might be dealing with nervous system overload — not just a bad product.


What Helped Me Come Back from It

(No 10-Step Routine Required)


Here’s the good news: you don’t have to fix everything overnight. Just start with one thing that feels kind.


These are the little things that helped me re-engage with my reflection (and my body) when I didn’t feel like doing anything:

  • A morning mocktail with my Happy Juice (something I actually look forward to drinking)

  • Swapping coffee for a protein-rich meal replacement smoothie that gave me real fuel instead of a crash

  • Giving myself just 3 minutes at night to wash my face, breathe, and use something calming

  • I finally started using a scalp serum to deal with the oiliness and thinning. Not to be high-maintenance — but because pretending it didn’t bother me wasn’t working. That one step reminded me I could still do something about it.

  • Writing one thing per day on a “feel-better list” instead of a to-do list


Burnout Isn’t Just Mental — It’s Visible


Want something that helps from the inside out?


A lot of people reach for collagen when their skin looks dull, puffy, or inflamed — but I suggest something else. If your body is stressed or inflamed, it may not use collagen well. What it really needs first is support.


I’ve been using a supplement stack that helps calm stress, feed the gut-skin connection, and bring visible glow back. It’s made a real difference — not just in how my skin looks, but in how I feel.


"A lot of people reach for collagen when their skin looks dull, puffy, or inflamed — but I suggest something else." -- Nelea Lane, CMWC
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Your skin tells a story. Let it be one of healing, not hiding.


Nelea R. Lane, CMWC

Certified Mental Wellness Coach

aka The Happy Juice Chick


Have questions? Message me here


*THESE STATEMENTS HAVE NOT BEEN EVALUATED BY THE FOOD AND DRUG ADMINISTRATION. THIS PRODUCT IS NOT INTENDED TO DIAGNOSE, TREAT, CURE, OR PREVENT ANY DISEASE.


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What the Skin–Brain Connection Means for Your Skin Microbiome and Stress Levels

You glance in the mirror and think, "Why does my skin look dull, puffy, or tired—when I’ve done everything 'right'?"


You haven’t changed your skincare routine. You’re eating fairly clean. You’re doing your best to manage stress. And yet—your skin still isn’t reflecting how you want to feel. It's having a mood!


Here’s a possibility you may not have considered: Your skin might be showing signs of stress and inflammation before you even feel them.


Emerging research on the skin–brain connection suggests that your skin microbiome—the community of good bacteria living on the surface of your skin—could be playing a role in how you look and feel. Just like the gut-brain axis, the skin-brain axis is revealing how our emotional wellness and skin health are closely linked.


“The skin microbiome, like the gut microbiome, plays a role in immune function, inflammation, and now—possibly mood. A balanced skin microbiome may act as a protective barrier, both physically and emotionally.” -- Nelea Lane, CMWC

Can Stress Really Show Up on Your Skin?


We’ve all heard of stress breakouts or looking “worn out”—but it turns out that might be more than just a saying.


In a recent study published in the British Journal of Dermatology, researchers found that people with higher levels of certain skin bacteria (specifically Cutibacterium, a normal part of healthy skin) on the face and underarms reported lower stress scores and better moods.


This study is one of the first to directly explore how the skin microbiome may affect mood through immune signaling and inflammation—opening up a new conversation about how stress isn’t just mental. It can be visible.


Skin as a Stress Barometer: What to Watch For


Your skin may be giving you feedback before your brain can catch up. Here are a few signs your skin may be reacting to stress or inflammation:

  • Sudden breakouts—especially around the jaw or cheeks

  • Increased sensitivity to products that were fine before

  • Dry patches or flakiness despite moisturizing

  • A dull or uneven tone, even with plenty of rest

  • Redness, itchiness, or a “flush” feeling during stressful weeks


This doesn’t mean your skincare routine is failing—it may simply mean your skin is responding to your life and asking for support.


Your Skin Microbiome and Emotional Wellness

The skin microbiome, like the gut microbiome, plays a role in immune function, inflammation, and now—possibly mood. A balanced skin microbiome may act as a protective barrier, both physically and emotionally.


While researchers are still uncovering how this works, the early signs point to something powerful: When your skin is supported, your stress response may shift. And when stress is high, your skin might need extra care—not just products, but moments of calm.


How to Support the Skin–Brain Connection (Gently)


You don’t need a 10-step routine. And you definitely don’t need to panic the next time your skin flares up. Try these small shifts:

  • Simplify your skincare—stick with gentle cleansers, minimal exfoliation, and calming ingredients

  • Treat your routine as a ritual, not a race—slow application and touch may help signal safety to your nervous system

  • Hydrate inside and out—stress depletes hydration at every level

  • Make consistent sleep a goal

  • Notice patterns between emotional events and changes in your skin

  • Breathe and check in—sometimes, your skin is just asking for you to pause


Before You Reach for Collagen… (Unpopular Opinion?)

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Collagen is everywhere right now. And while it has its place, it’s not always the first thing your skin is asking for—especially when it’s looking dull, puffy, inflamed, or reactive.


Here’s why: Collagen is a building block, but your body needs a calm, balanced foundation to actually use it well.


If stress is high, inflammation is simmering, and your gut microbiome is out of balance, even the best collagen won’t work the way you want it to.


So what should you support first?


My go-to stack to support the skin–brain connection


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  • The Fundamentals Pack– Mentabiotics: Supports gut health, mood, and microbial balance– MentaSync: Calms immune responses that impact inflammation– MentaFocus: Helps with mental clarity and nervous system support

  • Mood+– Balances cortisol (the stress hormone that messes with skin tone, texture, and breakouts)

  • VitaGBX– Delivers the nutrients your skin needs to heal, glow, and stay resilient from the inside out



Collagen can be helpful—but only if the rest of your body is supported, too." -- Nelea Lane, CMWC
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The more we learn about the body, the clearer it becomes: everything is connected.

Your mood, your skin, and your stress levels are not separate stories. They’re chapters in the same book.


So if your skin has been showing signs of wear, don’t just reach for a cover-up or a quick fix.

Maybe it’s not acting up. Maybe it’s speaking up.


And now that you’re listening, you can respond with care—starting from the inside out


Until next time—tune in, slow down, and glow from the gut out.


Nelea R. Lane, CMWC

Certified Mental Wellness Coach

aka The Happy Juice Chick


Have questions? Message me here


*THESE STATEMENTS HAVE NOT BEEN EVALUATED BY THE FOOD AND DRUG ADMINISTRATION. THIS PRODUCT IS NOT INTENDED TO DIAGNOSE, TREAT, CURE, OR PREVENT ANY DISEASE.


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How Gut Health and What You Sip Impacts Your Skin, Mood, and Energy

We’re finally talking about it — gut health isn’t just about digestion anymore. It’s your secret to glowing skin, balanced hormones, and better mood in midlife. I used to think bloating, brain fog, and mood swings were just part of aging, but once I started focusing on what went in my glass, everything started shifting.


“...once I started focusing on what went in my glass, everything started shifting.” -- Nelea Lane, CMWC

Why Gut Health Matters More Than You Think


Your gut is home to trillions of bacteria that affect everything from your digestion to your stress response and hormone balance. When your gut is imbalanced, so is everything else — including your energy, focus, and emotional regulation. It’s why bloating and burnout often show up together.


The Sip-First Approach That Changed Everything

Instead of overhauling my whole lifestyle, I started with one daily drink. Mocktails made with prebiotics, probiotics, hydration support, and brain-boosting nutrients became my new sanity ritual. Whether it was a smoothie, a functional mocktail, or a stress-support drink, this one simple habit started to shift everything.


What to Sip First

If you’re not sure where to start, I always recommend beginning with gut-brain support. That’s why I created the Finding Happy Guide — a free resource to help women 40+ learn how what’s in their glass can directly support their hormones, mood, and digestion.


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Want to see the exact drinks I use every day — and the stack that helped me feel like me again? Download the Finding Happy Guide or if you're ready to know exactly where to start, click the LET'S CHAT button and enter STRESS to message me directly and I'll help you choose your first sip based on how you’re feeling.


Because yes — you really can drink your way to happy. And it’s not what you think.


Until next time — sip well, feel better, and glow from the gut out.


Nelea R. Lane, CMWC

Certified Mental Wellness Coach

aka The Happy Juice Chick


Have questions? Message me here


*THESE STATEMENTS HAVE NOT BEEN EVALUATED BY THE FOOD AND DRUG ADMINISTRATION. THIS PRODUCT IS NOT INTENDED TO DIAGNOSE, TREAT, CURE, OR PREVENT ANY DISEASE.


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